It is an understandable question that is not easily answered with a simple yes or no response. First and foremost, the Church reserves all sex for marriage. This is not simply a way to restrict our natural sexual impulses, but rather to use them for what they were properly intended, namely for procreation of children and to build unity between husband and wife. Perhaps too much has been said and too often in this direction—without the necessary connection to truth and love. If we define oral sex as orally stimulating the male partner to orgasm, then the church would prohibit that even for married couples.